Not even joking, I’ve never read a book that spoke to me as much as this one did. Being a nice guy, I knew I didn’t like the results I was getting in life, but I couldn’t understand why. Every explanation in this book answered that question for me. By far the most helpful book I’ve ever read.

narcissists seek power and control of their environment in order to get their needs met So now he is demanding what he wants. Nmmng

As a nice girl, I read this book to better understand my husband but I discovered more about myself. I’m the caretaker of my husband, kids, and I’m a nurse. I learned about putting my needs first and implementing boundaries. I also learned a lot about my partner and his relationship with his mother/father. I’m hoping he will decide to read this book also and learn his own worth. So thank you for reforming this nice girl.

Really good eye opener

Couldn’t put it down, very concise and offers familiar examples

Great book for guys who need help

If you are struggling with self acceptance and you just can’t seem to find happiness this is the book for you!

Must read

Provided insight into all areas that I could relate too.

A book I was apprehensive to read but absolutely needed. The title threw me off at first. I never considered myself as a “Nice Guy”, a chump, or a simp. I’ve been with my fair share of women. I was the captain of my football team in high school, college athlete, bartender, and now an officer in the Marine Corps. I found myself at a point in my marriage where I just wasn’t happy. I started searching for answers to questions like, “how did I get here?” “Why am I sticking around” “Don’t I deserve better than this?” I was wondering if my current marriage was bad karma for the women I wronged in my late teens and early twenties... I started reading this book and felt a connection immediately. The author does an excellent job of peeling back the onion and analyzing the psychological motivations to partner selection. Every man should read this. I’ve gotta believe that almost all men can relate to this on a certain level.