The beginning of this book starts off action packed and full of suspense and interest. The second half loses the momentum but still provides a unique insight into to the author’s brain at the time. Overall, a very unique and personal book which I thoroughly enjoyed.

Opened my eyes to the ethical and emotional sequelae of artificial insemination.

This book stays with you long after you’re done reading. It’s like a fragrance or a flavor that makes a trip back to you with all its detail.

The best book I have read in years. Kol hakavod!

As an adoptive parent I found Dani Shapiro’s memoir fascinating. She is a gifted storyteller and through her words unlocks a world which I thought I had known. I’m still thinking about her story. It will be with me for a long time.

I’ve only read the sample and I really want and really liked it.

Wow, there is so much going on here. Not only does the author let us in on her very personal journey to discover her true “family”, she shows us the pain and vulnerability that precedes it. Big BIG questions about identity and ethics and the future (and past) of the medical practices we are beginning to take for granted today - things that were unheard of (or at least not discussed) 50 years ago. For me, though, just as important is the theme of secrets and what that does to a family and to the individual as they build their life. Really enjoyed this book and it brought up a lot of questions in my own life.